Ridge Meadows Doula Services

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A Postpartum Doula is more than a babysitter

August 25, 2015

As Postpartum Doulas, RMDS offers a lot of care that is typical to the job. Some examples  are assisting with breastfeeding, offering education, companionship and nonjudgmental support, offering baby wearing and cloth diapering support,  evidence-based information on infant feeding, infant soothing, emotional and physical recovery from birth and coping skills for new parents and making appropriate referrals when necessary. But there are other experiences that Postpartum Doulas have….

-cuddling a sleeping baby and hoping you can make that transition to the crib

-helping baby breastfeed, while mom is sleeping (overnights)

-baby baths

-walking baby stroller on a movie set because mom is in the industry

-washing baby clothes

-playing pokemon cards with a sibling

-making waxing appointments for mom while loading the dishwasher

-rocking a colicky baby all night once a week so mom can get SOME sleep

-sweeping while singing baby beluga to an older sibling

 

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Our role as a postpartum doula is to support a new mother.  We do nearly everything (minus yard work and bathrooms!) If that means making her feel supported, comfortable and confident by keeping her precious new baby safe and cared for  while Mom  goes to the gym, gets her nails done, gets a physical from her care provider, has a nap or shower then that’s what we do. We are trained professionals that have seen many, many babies, understand child development and know the community well for referrals. We are not teenage babysitters that are eating chips and using you for free wifi, we are doing this job to educate the mother and to mother your own intuition.

 

Categories : Doula Tagged : Daughter, Maple Ridge Doula, mapleridge, new mom, Pitt meadows, placenta encapsulation, postpartum doula maple ridge, postpartum doula pitt meadows, ridge meadows, tri-cities doula

What your child is LEARNING while playing outside

May 22, 2015

 

Getting outside is super simple when it is summer or hot and the weather is just right. Opening the back door and letting the kids explore, make a mess, paint, run, jump, sing is all spring/summer expectation. But what are your children learning while they are outside? For me once I learned and really mindfully thought about all the skills my child was gaining, we decided playing outside was not just for warm weather. We bundle up, put on our rain gear and just have fun (and LEARN!)

I hope this post helps educate parents and adults, but also encourages you adults to take off your shoes, run though the sprinkler, jump on the trampoline or do some gardening. There is so much evidence below and everyone can grow and learn.

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My child likes pink, barbies, twirly dresses and DIRT. Yup, mud pies, cakes, toes, hands feet and all in the DIRT. Many studies have shown dirt to be good for your brain? Apparently, there are types of bacteria that are naturally found in soil which activate the neurons that produce serotonin – a key chemical in many bodily functions. So really DIRT makes people happier, it’s science.

 

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Being in nature helps stimulate the curiosity and creativity of children. Do you know what a dump truck can be used for? Spend 30 minutes and you will see how many tasks that tiny yellow truck can have.

 

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The more we spend outside with my daughter the more I notice her compassion. She is so observant of any part of nature, plants, flowers, animals. But recently she is noticing litter. She get’s really wound up when she sees trash on the ground. She picks it up and is already a tiny environmentalist who is set on not leaving mother earth with crap all around.
trampoline

 

Bouncing on a trampoline is more than just for gross motor it increases blood flow to the brain and heightens mental alertness.

 

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Problem solving skills- When my daughter and I were running through this puddle repeatedly she was determining the best path, where we could safely stay dry and where to best splash zone was. She was a leader in this activity guiding me though the rain.

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Do you know what happens when you are barefoot? Research indicates that electrons from the Earth have antioxidant effects that can protect your body from inflammation and its many well-documented health consequences. For most of our evolutionary history, humans have had continuous contact with the Earth.  Read more here

 

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Green outdoor settings appear to reduce ADHD symptoms in children across a wide range of individual, residential, and case characteristics Said this study.

 

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Playing outside increases flexibility for children (and adults, this wobbly thing is tricky!)

 

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Playing outside can can help protect children against stress, according to a new study by two Cornell University environmental psychologist.  Check out the study published in  Environment and Behavior.
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Parents can use their time to build massive biceps, or at least have fun getting active.

 

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Playing outside has many benefits for the eyes. Recent evidence says children who play outside are less likely to have myopia (nearsighted). Help your child by NOTICING. Point out the pine cone, stick, pretty flower and pretty soon they will be pointing them out to you.

 

outside swing

 

When a child was on a swing they engage core muscles as well as muscles in the hand and arms to hold on. This teaches balance and coordination.

 

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Bikes and scooters that requite balance teach children new skills and self confidence. A bike is something they start off with as a trike and then those skills can grow with them and their confidence also expands. Hold your breath parents because there will be some blood and tears, but they keep on getting back on and then you get to see the smile on their face when they have mastered the skill.

Categories : Life, Uncategorized Tagged : abbotsford doula., babies, baby. pregnancy, benefits of outside play, birth, dirt, doula, maple ridge, Maple Ridge Doula, Nicole chambers, outside, parenting, Pitt meadows, placenta Encapsulation Pitt Meadows, play, port moody doula, ridge meadows, surrey doula, vancouver doula

5 things you can do to afford a doula

April 18, 2015

Ways you can afford your doula!

 

1) Payment plans- Typically we get 50% of the payment when we are hired, this holds the spot in our calendar for your due date. The remaining 50% is due during the “due month”. We are able to adjust this if needed, just ask. We had a client pay $100 a month. This works for us. We are happy to chat about this and see what can work for both parties.

 

2) Baby shower/Blessingway- No one needs a 16th soother, more baby apparatuses or more onesies… All of this is just stuff. What the new parents need is a doula. A birth experience is a memory that women and their partners hold onto for the rest of their lives. Instead of registering somewhere, send friends/family of the new parents to our website, and we would be happy to add money to the cost of their doula investment. Heck, we could even give out coupons!

 

3) Compromise- There is likely something you can give up or adjust for a few months. Latte’s, movies, eating out… These things are all not cheap. Sit down and work out how much excess spending cash you do actually use a month; you would be amazed at how much you could save if you limited these! First a doula, then a jet ski, then maybe a bigger house…

 

4) Barter- I’ve done a little bartering from time to time. I did a free placenta encapsulation for a birth doula client after her husband spruced up my website. It was a win/win! Some ideas…

 

  • Photography
  • Website design
  • Custom furniture
  • Auto repair
  • Plumbing Services

 

5) Sell things- Almost all of us have some items lying around (or hidden way back in the garage) that we no longer like, use or want.  Chuck them up on a bidding site or Craigslist and get some cash for those dust collectors!

 

Hiring a doula really isn’t a “dream” as some like to think. It’s easily achievable with a little effort, and once you look into the actual benefits of how incredible the support a doula offers can be- (check that out here) you won’t even need to think twice about ordering that next Starbucks.

Categories : Birthing, Doula Tagged : abbotsford doula., affording a doula, baby. pregnancy, doula, langley doula, maple ridge, Maple Ridge Doula, mapleridge, Nicole chambers, Pitt meadows, pittmeadows, port moody doula, surrey doula

“Why are doulas expensive?’

April 16, 2015

I’m often asked why a doula is “So Expensive” And I suppose if you have never broken down the pieces or really know how much time is involved maybe you would think that.  Ridge Meadows Doula Services Charges $1200. Here is a breakdown of our expenses.

Consultation/Interview- we consider this free, we are willing to share as much time with you as you need to ensure you get a good idea of who we are. We explain our philosophy, the advantages of a doula, our experience, our beliefs on birth and we let you see a part of our sparkling personalities. When we are hired we give you immediate phone and email support. Some families email every day, this is great— it helps build our relationship.

Prenatal #1– This is a 2-hour commitment with 2 doulas, the birther and her partner. We learn how the pregnancy has been going, how involved your partner wants to be, we build a birth plan in detail, we talk about the ins and out of a hospital or home birth and we go through our doula bag.

Prenatal #2– This is also a 2-hour commitment with 2 doulas. We explore your hopes and fears of births and work through them individually. We go over and practice comfort measures and teach you how to use our tens machine. Then we remind you to switch gears, we talk about after baby is born… Freezer meals, guests or no guests, breastfeeding etc.

The birth– For RMDS there is no right or wrong time to call us, it is when you need us.

Sometimes we come over, tuck you in and read on your couch.

Sometimes we come over and once everyone is settled we fall asleep also.

Sometimes we hook up the tens machine and remind you of the birth you are wanting.

Sometimes we come over and we start massaging and hip squeezing right away.

Sometimes you are rocking it on your own and we remind you of it.

Sometimes we meet you at the hospital.

Sometimes we come and start setting up the birth pool right away.

When we are there we support you for as many hours as needed. We have had births in 4 hours and births in 50 hours. We don’t leave right when a baby will be born, so we plan for the long haul. When we plan we arrange childcare, throw a meal in the slow cooker, we miss soccer practices, doula night outs, birthdays with friends and families. It’s our life. Our phone is on and we go to bed early, we skip the glass of wine, we make sure our car has gas and we have our doula bag by the front door. This is the doula life. And this is part of the job.

Postpartum Visit- This visit is many things. We often talk about and celebrate the birth. We help with breastfeeding, teach you first bathing techniques if needed, let you shower while we hold baby. We don’t expect a cup of tea, heck, we will get YOU a cup of tea. We want to connect, support, and encourage you. This takes time, 2 hours-ish.

So yes, doulas are expensive, even after all the hours we are with our clients we go out and we spend our money educating ourselves by taking additional workshops and classes.

Why do we do it? Because we love it because we believe every woman deserves to have informed choice, because birth matters!

Happy Birthing, Nicole

Categories : Doula Tagged : abbotsford doula., coquitlam doula, DONA, doula, maple ridge, Maple Ridge Doula, Nicole chambers, Pitt meadows, pitt meadows doula, port coquitlam doula, surrey doula

25 things you didn’t know about Nicole

March 13, 2015

 

1- Last year I went gluten and dairy free because my daughter was diagnosed with Celiac Disease (I feel amazing!)

2- at only 5’1 I play co-ed volleyball 2-3 times a week 3- I’m American, born in Indiana

4-I proposed to my husband and he took my last name

5-I was married in April because I love Cherry Blossoms

6- A good cup of coffee can solve just about anything

7- I’m a children who witness abuse counsellor in my other job

8-I’m a certified car seat technician

9- My mother-in-law lives with us and we get along!!

10- There is often a concert happening in my living room, my daughter and husband will be in a band one day, I just know it!

11- We have a Labradoodle puppy named Luna

12- I am a new age hippie (or that’s what my husband calls me) I like to garden, make tinctures and salves and try and heal most illnesses with homeopathics, herbs or Essential Oils.

13- I’m a beach gal, give me warm sand and an ocean any day.

14-My daughter was born at 42 weeks, induced and born in a hospital (we had planned for a home birth)

15- I collect buttons, all shapes and sizes. For what you ask? I don’t know yet!

16- I love beets, pickled beets, beet salad, roasted beets, beets in smoothies… Any and all ways

17-I breastfed my daughter for 31 months. It got easier, but the first 6 weeks I didn’t know if I would continue at all.

18- I LOVE placentas. Really! Before I process them, I stare at the complexities of the veins. They are referred to as the tree of life and I truly value the placenta as the life line.

19- I had cervical cancer in 2011 and had a hysterectomy in 2012.

20- I have a mad addiction to Grey’s Anatomy… Who’s idea was it to put a dozen seasons on Netflix?!

21- I could spend any sunny afternoon in the back yard with my husband, daughter and dog. Gardening, playing soccer, climbing the apple tree and giggling.

22-My husband is an actor and I spend many, many, many evenings watching improv.

23- I am not afraid to speak up, be an advocate or voice my concern when needed.

24- I want to feed my family as natural and organic as I can, but ice-cream (yes, im dairy free…. mostly) is my weakness.

25- I find peace in mandalas. I love them so much I have a tattoo on one on my shoulder (and 3 other tattoos!)

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